In Part 2 we talk about talk about what your parents didn’t know. 我們來談談衝突 is a seven-part video series, each of 5–10 minutes duration, with supportive learnings and key takeaways.
Love and Care Shapes Your Child
Your everyday love and care is vital to shaping your child’s emotional and social development. Conflict can impact how you parent and the quality of the relationship you have with your child.
You Are Their Safe Place
Just as a plant needs energy from the sun to grow, a climate of care that fosters secure attachment lays the foundations for growth in your child’s higher brain, supporting their ability to stay calm, manage what they feel, and ultimately cope with stress and thrive in the real world. The first 1000 days of life – between conception and your child’s 2nd birthday – is a unique window of opportunity for you to build this sort of relationship with your child.
Secure attachments also underpin future relationships. A secure attachment to parents means a child is likely to be less distressed when separated from you, more confident mixing with others, and develop stronger social skills. As they venture out into the big world, they will be secure in the knowledge that there is a safe haven with you if they need it.
Conflict can impact how you parent. When you react, you are not as emotionally available to your child – not the secure base they need. Over time, that may shake their developmental foundations. If conflict goes on as a pattern, many parts of their emotional growth cannot take root…. And important parts of their emotional growth may start to wilt.
反思
Consider how you show your child love and care. Are you sensitive to their needs? Are you responsive and consistent in fulfilling them? Are you physically and emotionally available? These are simple ways in which you help your child develop and keep a secure attachment with you.
觀看完整系列
該系列專為父母使用而設計,無論他們是同居還是分居。這是支持他們減少衝突對孩子的情緒和社交發展的影響的實用工具。
它基於 20 多年的科學研究和實踐證據,提供了專家直接、切中要害的想法和建議。該劇還重點講述了父母因家庭衝突而面臨現實生活挑戰的真實經歷。為了探討父母關係如何影響孩子,完整系列包括:
- 簡介:讓我們來談談衝突
- 第 1 部分:什麼是“父母衝突”,我們為什麼要談論它?
- 第二部分:你父母不知道的事情
- 第三部分:父母衝突如何影響孩子的發展?
- 第四部分:孩子如何適應父母衝突?
- 第五部分:父母如何處理父母衝突?
- 第六部分:父母如何幫助修復父母衝突造成的傷害?
請注意,Relationships Australia SA 不提供這些影片的證書或完成驗證。
致謝
《讓我們談談衝突》© 由迪肯大學社會和早期情感發展中心 (SEED) 的 Jennifer E. McIntosh 和 Craig Olsson 撰寫。它是由澳大利亞關係協會製作。