In Part 1 we talk about ‘normal’ levels of conflict. 让我们谈谈冲突 是一个由七部分组成的视频系列,每部分时长 5-10 分钟,内容包括辅助学习和要点。
Conflict can be Repaired
Parental conflict can range from constructive to destructive, to domestic violence in its most extreme form. Fortunately, normal levels of conflict are manageable and even give children chances to learn and grow, provided everyone remains safe. Much long-term harm to your child is preventable, and damage from many forms of conflict can be repaired.
Children Need Emotional Support to Thrive
Just as plants need soil to grow, your child needs emotional nourishment from you for their emotional and social development. As a parent, you are like a gardener. You and the relationships you create around your child become the soil your child grows in.
Low level conflict between parents is a normal part of family life. While it can include accommodating behaviours (such as staying calm, and seeing the other parent’s point of view), there are times when it becomes destructive. Being around destructive conflict between parents (such as anger, distrust, threats, shouting, or the ‘silent treatment’) is like a toxin or bad soil. You might not see the damage at first, but emotional toxins can have a negative impact on your child’s long-term mental health and future life chances.
Importantly, most parents can make small changes that make big differences to your child’s life, allowing them to thrive and flourish.
反思
Consider how you respond to your partner or former partner when you are in a verbal disagreement, that’s unpleasant but not unsafe. Do you recognise unhelpful behaviours in yourself? If you do, there is something you can do about it, beginning with communicating differently.
观看完整系列
本系列专为父母设计,无论他们是同居还是分居。它是一种实用工具,可帮助他们减少冲突对孩子情感和社会发展的影响。
该系列以 20 多年的科学研究和实践证据为基础,提供专家们直截了当、一针见血的想法和建议。该系列还重点介绍了父母在家庭冲突方面遇到的现实挑战的真实经历。要探索父母关系如何影响孩子,完整系列包括:
- 引言:让我们谈谈冲突
- 第 1 部分:什么是“父母冲突”,为什么我们要谈论它?
- 第二部分:你的父母不知道的事
- 第三部分:父母冲突如何影响孩子的成长?
- 第四部分:孩子如何适应父母冲突?
- 第五部分:父母如何处理父母冲突?
- 第六部分:父母如何帮助修复父母冲突造成的损害?
请注意,Relationships Australia SA 不为这些视频提供证书或完成验证。
致谢
《让我们谈谈冲突》© 由迪肯大学社会和早期情感发展中心 (SEED) 的 Jennifer E. McIntosh 和 Craig Olsson 撰写。由 Relationships Australia SA 制作。
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